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3 Strikes and You’re Out – How Bad Impressions Can Cause A Prospect To Run!

July 6, 2012/4 Comments/in Communication Skills/by Bill Caskey

I’m sure we’ve all heard that saying, but it’s important because it applies to many aspects of life – interviews, dating, networking and presentations.

A few weeks ago, I reached out to a company via email to determine if their services fit our needs.   The owner contacted me a few days later and we discussed the purpose of my email.   I clearly explained what we were looking for and we then set a time to meet.

 

STRIKE ONE!

Upon arrival, the entire staff greeted me, that’s all fine and dandy, but I was blind-sided because I didn’t expect them to join us for the meeting.

So how did that make me – the prospect – feel in this situation? Confused. If your prospect is confused within 5 minutes of meeting you, then you’ve struck out.

√ THE LESSON: HAVE A CLEAR AGENDA AND MENTION ALL THE KEY PLAYERS PRIOR TO A MEETING WITH A PROSPECT OR CLIENT.

Before you meet with a prospect and even a client, send them a CLEAR outline.  The idea is to share the content of the meeting and inform them of other people who might join the meeting.

In our eBook, Email It – A Seller’s Guide to Emails That Work, we lay out the framework of how it might sound.  One of the pre-written emails, specifically Email The Agenda Upfront, we lay how to write this email.

Here’s a checklist of things you should put in the upfront agenda:

  • What you’d like to discuss in broad terms
  • Ask them if there is anything else they’d like to discuss
  • Introduce other people who might join the meeting
  • Anything they should bring (if this applies)

**This gets back to the premise that a person with a plan will be in control of the process and will create a great impression! After all, I’m sure you don’t want to confuse or surprise your prospect.

 

STRIKE TWO!

At the beginning of the meeting, each employee stared at me like a deer in headlights.  Clearly none of them knew what we were meeting about.

√ LESSON: EMAIL THE AGENDA TO ALL PEOPLE ATTENDING THE MEETING.

Use common sense.  If you’re bringing a colleague, your boss, a friend or whomever into a meeting with a prospect or client– always fill them in on ALL the details beforehand!

 

STRIKE THREE!

Don’t suggest the FULL enchilada unless you know all your prospect’s problems.

The company recommended the entire enchilada—after blindly diagnosing my pains and problems.  Little did they know, the tasty taco would have fixed my problems.

√ LESSON: ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS BEFORE YOU OFFER SOLUTION.

One IMPORTANT part of the sales process is to find the Compelling Reason for change.  As sales professionals, we have to get to the bottom of why a prospect would change what they are doing now to a new solution.

Here are some optimum questions we recommend you ask to find pain:

  1. “What do you see as the biggest issue keeping you from your vision?”
  2. “Why is that a problem?”
  3. “What have you done in the past to fix it?”
  4. “What happens if you decide not to take action?”
  5. “How much does it cost you to have these problems?”

Babe Ruth said, “Don’t let the fear of striking out hold you back.”  But if you only have three chances to hit a home run, then why not put your best foot forward and make a great impression?

 

Tags: compelling reason, Lead Generation, prospecting, Sales Process, selling system
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4 replies
  1. JamaicaBob Griffiths
    JamaicaBob Griffiths says:
    July 6, 2012 at 5:54 pm

    I so can relate to this post.  I recently was asked to step up to contract negotiator/biz dev guy withouth much warning.  Our company had a couple of “meetings”scheduled, one of which was supposed to be a “contract negotiation.”

    Well fortunately, since I’m a podcast listener, I remembered the importance of asking the right questions…

    That saved my from two potentially embarrassing meetings.

    Thx again for the  on-point reminders…

    • Jillian Vanarsdall
      Jillian Vanarsdall says:
      July 10, 2012 at 10:33 am

      Bob,

      I’m sure with your new job you’re forced more to ask the tough, but important questions.    I’m glad to know our content has helped you!

      Thanks for being a listener and a follower!  🙂

  2. Taylor Backs
    Taylor Backs says:
    July 10, 2012 at 10:10 am

    If I could have a reminder of “Strike 3” tattooed somewhere, I think I would.  Often sales people–including myself at times–get so caught up in “building rapport” that they never really dig into the “issues”.  Then you walk out, feeling great about the last 20 min until you review your notes…”Crap, I didn’t get anything of substance but I know all about my buyer’s pets and kids.”  Unfortunately, while this information might make my buyer feel all “chummy”, it’s not going to accomplish our mutual goal of solving a problem.  Worse yet, from my buyer’s perspective I’m likely moved from the category of a “potential solution” to “a nice guy” but really just another commodity/vendor who drops off donuts from time to time…

    Good read, great reminder.

    • Jillian Vanarsdall
      Jillian Vanarsdall says:
      July 10, 2012 at 10:48 am

      Taylor,

      I agree with you the on the “building rapport” and do think it’s important,  but I also think it’s a change for some salespeople to have the right intent to help and solve the prospect’s problems.  This also means asking those tough questions that most of us try to avoid. 

      Thanks for the comment!

      P.S. You’re more than welcome to stop by the Caskey office anytime to drop off donuts! 🙂

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